2013-09-12

Find Your Good Life

I've been thinking about "the good life" a lot lately, inspired by reading John H. Bodley's textbook, Cultural Anthropology: Tribes, States, and the Global System. Bodley uses the term summum bonum in his discussion on the good life. He defines summum bonum as, "the maximum human good … as culturally defined".

Bodley writes:
... in addition to household well-being, individuals also need sociability, material prosperity, security, and the opportunity to enjoy expressive culture. These conditions ... are similar to Abraham Maslow’s “hierarchy of human needs.” In this regard, the “best” culture would maximize human freedom, happiness, and the general welfare and would sustain a just and moral society. Individual freedom can be defined positively as the realization of self-interest and negatively as freedom from interference.
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Any culture’s moral worth could be its effectiveness in providing the universal good life measured by individual human health and well-being, human freedom, social stability, and the sustainability of the sociocultural system’s material base.
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most people were best able to enjoy the good life in the tribal world, where individual freedom was the highest, and everyone was assured an irreducible minimum of material benefits and opportunities. The imperial world gave a few people a very good life, while exploiting and pushing down the majority. The commercial world accepts extreme levels of inequality, poverty, sickness, conflict, and environmental degradation, even as large numbers of people enjoy high levels of material prosperity.
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health and well-being in the commercial world, as measured by life expectancy, have now been found to be improved more by social equality and social cohesion than by absolute increases in wealth.
Bodley's good life corresponds with my vision for myself: I do great things with great people. More broadly, it corresponds with my goal, to be happy now and in the future, inspired by Eli Goldratt's The Goal.

I've been living the good life for the last few months. Here are some examples from the past couple of days:
  • She beckoned me over to sign a petition. I took her hand, and we danced tango on the sidewalk.
  • Every break from work is guitar-singing practice. Every break from guitar-singing is work. And they're both fun!
  • Cuddling with a friend
  • Exploring Symphony Hall and helping friends produce the international squash tournament in Boston
  • Camping and hiking in the mountains with a friend
  • Late afternoon disc golf with a friend
  • Drinking coffee on the pond, watching the ducks, talking with a friend, gentle breeze across our faces; bonus points if it's sunset.
  • Waking up in the tent in the rain, singing and playing guitar to my friend for the morning
  • A jazz-reggae band opening for the Jimmy Cliff movie, two doors down from my apartment, with my son
  • Sunday midmorning breakfast with an old friend, discovering how aligned we are, and riding my bike to get there
  • A quick nap in the park in Harvard Square, gentle breeze across my skin, the guitarist over my shoulder sings a lullabye
  • Morning coffee with a new friend and potential employer, discovering his high self-awareness, emotional maturity, and overall goodness
  • Lying on our backs, the new moon amplifies the stars, we count meteors and satellites among them, the stars so bright and numerous we can barely make out the Big Dipper and North Star
  • Herbal tea and people watching in the park in Harvard Square after sunset
  • We make a wrong turn, and a baby bunny greets us
  • A strong lingering hug

For me, it's all about connecting with people and living artfully.

How do you define your "good life"? Are you living it? What would you do differently to start living the good life today?

2 comments:

Elinor Slomba said...

Richard Kasperowski says: At the Give Thanks for Scrum event, I did a pecha kucha in which I said thank you to important people. You were one of them. I thanked you for introducing me to anthropology.

Elinor Slomba says: You are most welcome. Your interest in the subject and a couple of other collaborations prompted me to put together a mini-course for Agilists called "Think Before You Hack: An Anthropology Primer."

Enjoy your good life!

Richard Kasperowski said...

So cool! I bet your course is great!

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